Does Debbie

Wednesday, August 02, 2006

Please Vote

Dear Readers,

As many of you know, I have a secret admirer. While very flattering from afar, if this guy doesn't turn out to be how I imagine, this situation could get kind of creepy. And anyone who knows me understands that I burst when faced with secrecy and surprise. Mr. Anonymous claims he would like to get in touch with me, but it limited to blog postings.

Voting time: Please let me know if I SHOULD or SHOULD NOT give my email (back-up one of course as I am a safety girl) to Mr. Anon.

Much appreciated,

Debbie

posted by Does Debbie @ 8:04 PM  

10 Comments:

  • At 8:10 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    SHOULD NOT. we want to read everything.

     

  • At 8:33 PM, Blogger Tracy said…

    NO WAY. Mr. Anon should out himself on this site... he's managed to intrigue us all, but it is starting to border on weird. Why is he just starting to write you, after all this time of Does Debbie and coincidentally just after a break-up? Whoever he is, he'd better be sincere.

     

  • At 8:42 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I am sincere and was an admirer from afar to the existence of The Fool. But The Fool is gone. I have used this medium as it is non-threatening and unintrusive. It would be weird to compliment Debbie while she is "in luv" with another...but that time has passed. I do not mean to be weird or pester, and will discontinue my posts if I am a bother.

     

  • At 12:04 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I say no.

    The 'man' is probably 13. He tends to write like a junior high kid...

     

  • At 9:53 AM, Blogger Chris said…

    I think that yes you should give him your email.

    I also think you should never ever give out your email to online stalkers unless you're prepared to end up in their freezer.

    But he seems very sincere and infatuated with you, so it's probably ok to give him some info.

    Then again, Ted Bundy was a really polite gentleman. Until he started killing girls.

    Hope that clarified the situation for you.

     

  • At 9:58 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    i don't think the anonymous guy sounds or writes like a 13 year old. i think he is a pretty good writer aside from the occasional typo. the real question is, what is Mr. Anonymous' motivation. does he want to have dinner with debbie? cybersex? just be a penpal? Also, even though this is cyberspace there should still be some form of chivalry. if he wants to communicate privately with Debbie he should be man enough to give his email address, and savvy enough to make a new one on gmail if he fears posting his email on a public blog. But debbie should certainly not make the first move and post her email address. Even if Anon directly asked, which he has not. He has only indirectly and meekly hinted at the wish for debbie to make disclosure.

     

  • At 10:55 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    i agree with the most recent anonymous...

     

  • At 7:01 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I know that it seems exciting to have a "secret" dude... but that is only because you are suddenly single. In any other circumstance, you would be creeped out by said "dude" and ask him to identify himself. You are a classy lady DD, and although it is fun to have SD (Secret Dude), leave him at there... in that fun stage where your heart goes pitter pat while your fingers go clickity click on the keyboard. You'll find a new guy, and he won't be a secret!

     

  • At 7:34 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Wow, such passionate and creative responses. I thank the other DD readers for voicing their thoughts and think they were very valuable. While some have impled, or directly stated, that I am crazy or have nefarious motives, I can assure you that neither is correct. Rather, I'm just a guy who finds Debbie quite cute. However, I am also a guy who has had his share of failed relationships and realize that at times a person needs space before they can move on. In that regard, I felt it worthwhile to try and cheer Debbie up while she was going through her separation from the Fool. At this point I do not believe I would be good to her in any capacity other than a friend. Maybe at some point in the future I will change my mind, but not until Debbie has expressed a real desire to meet someone new. Even though the Fool made a tremendous mistake does not mean that Debbie does not still miss him; once he is out of mind then I will provide a reasonable way for Debbie to contact me...is that fair? Rest assured, I will continue my postings in hopes of reminding Debbie that she should neither give up hope nor despair her current singleness.

     

  • At 7:41 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    brilliant chess move Anon!

     

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