Does Debbie

Thursday, May 10, 2007

Doesn't Debbie

I gave this a lot of thought. I really did. And while I can't be sure it is the right decision, it is the one I am sticking with, for now at least.

After 280 posts and over two years of writing, I am putting Does Debbie to bed. Or at least, I am taking a nap. The last month or two have not allowed me to write as much as I want to, and to be honest, I haven't wanted to write much.

When I began blogging, I was in a different place in my life. I desperately needed the creative release, and there was also the secret desire to get "found" and become the next Candace Bushnell, or something like that. Now I am at a different point in my life. I don't feel the need to share the inner details of my crazy mind and I have much more pressure to be creative in my day job. And while I am still single and have dating stories (hello! some guy gave me a lip hickey on our first, blind date!) they are unfortunately few and far between.

I greatly appreciate your readership, advice and support these past two years. I'm sure I'll be back some day.


  • At 1:14 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Best of luck Ms. Debbie! As a loyal fan, I will miss you. xo Ms. Jen

  • At 9:34 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Deb... I can support a 'nap' from the blog, but please come back. I enjoy reading your blog (I can't remember how I found it) and being a fellow New York woman, I love to hear your familiar stories... Sometimes a nap can help reawaken the creative mind, but it would be a shame if you gave up on this blog. Thanks!

  • At 12:35 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    we miss you already! please come back. lunch time isn't the same without does debbie! your wit helps get us through the day.

  • At 3:08 PM, Blogger Chris said…

    Sometimes a healthy break is the best medicine. Recharge your batteries, focus on the things in your life that should take higher priority, and do what it takes to be happy. We'll be here if you decide to come back.

  • At 7:37 PM, Anonymous t said…

    Is there any way to get in touch with the owner of this blog regarding her "Anonymous" "Admirer" from the past? What ever came of that?

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